For me, Christmas has always been about celebrating family. Growing up, I even remember that although it was exciting that Santa may be paying our home a visit, it wasn't so much about the presents.
Up until I was 20, my family and I spent either Thanksgiving or Christmas or both in Hawaii with my paternal grandparents. In 1991, my grandparents celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary, so we arranged a long vacation to coincide with that celebration and Christmas. It was the last time that I spent the holiday with my dad's extended family while my beloved grandfather was still alive.
That year, I remember waking early morning on Christmas day and watching aunts, uncles, cousins and their kids slowly make their way into my grandparents' kitchen, rubbing the sleepiness out of their eyes as they yawned and walked in. I recall the smell of the tropical air as it breezed in throughout the house, a hint of guava tree scent from the one that grew in the front yard. Granny and Grandpa orchestrated the distribution of presents. There was joy and laughter as gifts were opened and breakfast was served.
After the morning's activity, my parents accompanied my cousins, sister, and I as we walked down the road to Pokai Bay Beach where we played until the early afternoon. December in Hawaii is both stormy and warm. There's nothing like swimming in the open ocean as the tropical rains showered down on our heads.
Following a quick rest, we caravanned from Waianae to Aiea to my great-aunt's house for dinner. Great-auntie Helen had as many children and grandchildren as my granny, so it was like a small island nation was convening at her house for holiday celebration. More food, more gifts, and more family entertainment ensued. We sang and danced, and listened to the adults tell funny stories about their favorite memories of us and eachother.
I've experienced many fun Christmases over the years, but this has been the most memorable for me for a long while. My grandfather and great-aunt have since passed away, and I only see relatives intermittently a few at a time. I enjoy spending time with my family, not just over the holidays but for all occasions, and I hope that one day we can come together for another memorable reunion again soon.
