Thanks...But No Thanks

Yesterday I received the following message on Facebook:

"I know that this is a pretty random email, but here it goes. I used to work at [former workplace omitted] with you and had somewhat of a "crush" on you. The problem was that I was too shy to even intoduce myself. I was a manager in Customer Care at the time and was mostly all business at work.

I'm curious to see if you remember who I am or not? I know that we passed in the hallways more then a few times.

So anyway, I was surfing around on FB and came upon your page. I figured I'd let you know and if at this point you do not think I'm crazy or wierd maybe we could meet up sometime?"

I haven't responded to this message, and doubt that I will. A few things crossed my mind while reading this. First off, what does "somewhat of a "crush"" mean? How many guys have I missed opportunities with because they were too shy? What number of people scope out social networking sites like Facebook to search for (or stalk!) crushes? Will Facebook ever institute a spell check tool in its messaging system?

As nice as this guy may seem, I wonder what compelled him to connect with me. It's been 3 years since I left that last job, so I find it hard to believe that any interest could endure or be reignited after such a long period of time. Also, I am apprehensive about being asked out via a social networking site or even online for that matter. It's not my style and quite honestly, a turn-off. Had this guy made an attempt to talk to me in person or pursue me at the old job, I may have considered it at the time.

Fortunately, my luck with guys has been quite nice lately, so I feel I can afford to be selective. I'm not the type to pounce on every male that shows the slightest hint of attraction towards me (of course the handsome and/or bold ones do get my attention, but I digress). Not that there's anything bad about this guy, but I'm simply not intrigued. Sadly, his chances are slim to none. Boys and girls: a word to the wise - don't squander any opportunity to go after something in the present, otherwise you might miss your chance forever.