Thanks...But No Thanks

Yesterday I received the following message on Facebook:

"I know that this is a pretty random email, but here it goes. I used to work at [former workplace omitted] with you and had somewhat of a "crush" on you. The problem was that I was too shy to even intoduce myself. I was a manager in Customer Care at the time and was mostly all business at work.

I'm curious to see if you remember who I am or not? I know that we passed in the hallways more then a few times.

So anyway, I was surfing around on FB and came upon your page. I figured I'd let you know and if at this point you do not think I'm crazy or wierd maybe we could meet up sometime?"

I haven't responded to this message, and doubt that I will. A few things crossed my mind while reading this. First off, what does "somewhat of a "crush"" mean? How many guys have I missed opportunities with because they were too shy? What number of people scope out social networking sites like Facebook to search for (or stalk!) crushes? Will Facebook ever institute a spell check tool in its messaging system?

As nice as this guy may seem, I wonder what compelled him to connect with me. It's been 3 years since I left that last job, so I find it hard to believe that any interest could endure or be reignited after such a long period of time. Also, I am apprehensive about being asked out via a social networking site or even online for that matter. It's not my style and quite honestly, a turn-off. Had this guy made an attempt to talk to me in person or pursue me at the old job, I may have considered it at the time.

Fortunately, my luck with guys has been quite nice lately, so I feel I can afford to be selective. I'm not the type to pounce on every male that shows the slightest hint of attraction towards me (of course the handsome and/or bold ones do get my attention, but I digress). Not that there's anything bad about this guy, but I'm simply not intrigued. Sadly, his chances are slim to none. Boys and girls: a word to the wise - don't squander any opportunity to go after something in the present, otherwise you might miss your chance forever.

Pre-Party Tip: Take a Nap!

Living in Las Vegas means parties happen non-stop, seven days a week. The night scene here really picks up late in the evening, the best starting midnight or later.

I've been to a good share of parties, most being on the Strip where the people are dressed to impress, drinks are continuously flowing, and where you lose all sense of time. Despite the music, lights, and dancing, the clock seems to stand still when you're having a great time, but before you know it, the sun is rising.
It does take some skill to be able to stay out all night. The experienced party people know how to pace themselves with the alcohol, still being able to get drunk without passing out or vomiting too early in the evening. Dancing, being a good cardiovascular activity, takes up a lot of your energy, and for the inexperienced this could mean tiring out before the rest of your party.

The trick to survive the long celebratory evenings is simple: take a nap. Whether it's a cat nap, a 20-minute power nap, or (my favorite) 3 to 4 hour slumber, recharge your batteries with a nap. Your party-ready self will thank you for it.